Well I know I'm 9 days late ... But I take this opportunity today to wish you not a happy new year but beautiful days in this year 2021 ... Since no one in the world can have a whole year of happiness, joy, health I find this tradition quite fallacious ...
I would like to thank each of you, whoever you are, for coming to this site and taking the time to read me. I don't know who you are, where you are, we don't know each other personally, but knowing that people read me, take the time to try to understand the experience of a person like me does me a lot of good and helps a lot in my recovery! It somehow repairs all those years of silent suffering, indifference, negation, loneliness ... It also helps me to understand myself better internally because writing here regularly forces my parts to understand each other, share, exchange, collaborate and find how to formulate and explain what they are going through to an "audience". Even if this "public" is virtual, it contributes to our progress and our inner healing.
The year 2020 is truly an incredible and pivotal year in my recovery. If I try to take stock of it, I realize how much I have changed, how much I have evolved, how much my daily life has improved ... One more year with the help of my shrink and some people around me with whom I learned to better understand myself, know myself, help each other, love my parts and me. A year passed learning to laugh together, cry together, feel together ... A year to discuss and analyze the world, the present ... Growing together, feeling stronger, more complete ... A year with more humanity, love, peace, tenderness, listening in my everyday life ...
What else could we wish for this year 2021?
The year 2021 will also be incredible, I am sure! I therefore wish each of you listening, sharing, love, support during trials, laughter, cries with resource people, joys, mutual aid, humanity, understanding, dialogue, questioning, going beyond, small victories, hope in the storm, outstretched hands, confidence, walks in the middle of nature, wonder for things big and small, to listen to your inner child, to trust yourself, to love yourself, to forgive yourself, to listen to you, to understand yourself, to feel safe, to feel loved ... because it is is all these little things, these little outstretched hands, these little nothing that will make your year 2021 a year of happiness, health and joy.
No year has a moment without a drop in morale, health concerns, injuries, misfortunes, difficulties, losses ... But when you take the time to appreciate every little happiness, every little moment of sharing, humanity, this is how we survive, how we find the strength to move forward and how we grow up ...
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