As I read the document below, I can't help but scream, cry, rage and despair ...
In the sect in which I grew up all these criteria, I mean ALL were gathered!
Quite literally, it describes the environment in which I was raised!
Sources :
As far as I'm concerned, the violence that I suffered came as much from men as from women, there were priests but they were not the most sadistic and the most violent towards me. On the contrary, it is the founder and his wife and other couples who have been.
For me, the new communities are similar to a "sports club" in their operation.
In these communities, they "recruit" as in the clubs, there is the "club code", the club's clothes, the language of the club ... To enter, you have to blend in with the guidelines, the way of To do so, at the beginning we are on the sidelines before “going up in rank and being promoted”. A whole hierarchy system, a federation, a trainer ...
In the Church itself, it will be more one man in particular who will do damage, in the new communities it is an entire group. And the Church, cover it up, use it. And when this community is questioned, they end up withdrawing canonical recognition and wash their hands of it.
As in the clubs, in these communities, we know but we do not say, from one federation to another we know half-heartedly, sometimes we pass the "prey" on to each other as at L'Arche by Jean Vannier ...
As in sports clubs, people do not say anything because the person targeted is "moreover" a "good trainer", we cannot criticize him because it would fall on the whole federation so we cover ...
A lot of people in these communities are naïve, have their hearts set on their shoulders, what is going on under their noses is just impossible so it does not exist ... even when there is evidence! The people who engage in it are looking for something else, an ideal. They are therefore not offended by the difficulties, on the ungrateful side of what they are going through. For them, on the contrary, it is a guarantee that it is good, that they have made the right choice.
There is a diversion of the vows of obedience, poverty, radicalism ... But it is of the order of perversion to sectarian drift.
When the Church or the local bishops try to reframe things, the new communities hide behind their "association of law 1901" and seek canonical recognition elsewhere, in Rome or in another country where no one is aware of. what's going on ... And everything can go on with impunity.
The issue of sexual violence within new communities is finally starting to be taken into account:
Le Verbe de vie
Saint Jean
https://www.franceculture.fr/emissions/les-pieds-sur-terre/sous-emprise?fbclid=IwAR1_Lvzq4RB1t-8MwUX0cn6tiGYsfFPPqhbFednNyKJ-Fdr1x
A l'Arche de Jean Vannier
Point Coeur
Les foyers de charité
Les Béatitudes
L'Emmanuel
http://www.francesoir.fr/societe-faits-divers/pedophilie-un-troisieme-pretre-mis-en-examen-en-une-semaine?fbclid=IwAR19BpELZwlOv3tVS22yD6sfJxgSSQzz1HSkrHdqO1MiGVx-tebEnW6LALg
The Church has opened an independent investigation to collect the testimonies of victims:
A directory of reported communities:
Things are moving and so much the better, but I don't know if the Church will really be willing to clean up in front of her door ... I am very skeptical!
I am not saying that all new communities are sectarian, nor that in all of them, child rapes take place! Just as not all priests are rapists, nor are all fathers incestuers!
But I think there are criteria to be sought to know or suspect it.
And for that, first of all, we have to look at the criteria for sectarian aberrations:
Personality cult
Cut to the outside
Handling
Inconsistency of life
Because in the field of sectarian aberrations, there is everything "necessary" to rape children with impunity for decades!
The violence that I suffered is so enormous that for the moment I do not have the courage to file a complaint because I know to what extent already, a "rape by ascendant" or by "a stranger" is unrecognized. , not taken into account by justice and society while what will they say about rapes in meetings, ceremonies, my testimony ...?
For the moment I am rebuilding myself, the time of the fight will perhaps come later ...
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